That’s like saying
“It’s stupid to be around the things you love”
No different than fishing, or a car hobby,or painting…
It’s selfish,I will concede to that…
But you must have something… something you love,,, somewhere you love being..
Avoidance?
I don’t care, I really don’t…
I love my little sanctuary,and I’m proud of what I’ve built.
And I did it myself.
Over time.
It makes me happy